If you have checked out my Technorat section, you may have
guessed that,
when it comes to portable inanimate objects you don't want to lose, I
believe in tying them down. Use string, chain, or rope, or whatever is
handy.
I have several things tied to large heavy objects, and I always know
where they are.
This logical and effective method somehow bothered my most recent
ex-wife.
Unlike remote controls, lighters, and pens, people, women in
particular, should NOT
be tied, in my opinion. They should be there, where and when you want
them, BECAUSE THEY WANT TO, not because they're tied to the bedposts.
Moreover, they
should KNOW, deep inside, that they are where they want to be. If they
must be tied or
or if they must imagine that they are tied, one may be better off
losing them altogether.
As for those who play games with ropes and whips and chains, I do not
begrudge them their fun.
But to me, complete mutuality is the ultimate enhancer.